孔子家语子路初见第十九原文拼音版 《孔kng子z家ji语y子z路l初ch见jin》 子z路l初ch见jin孔kng子z,子z曰yu:“汝r何h好ho乐l?”对du曰yu:“好ho长chng剑jin。”孔kng子z曰yu:“吾w非fi此c之zh问wn也y,徒t谓wi以y子z之zh所su能nng,而r加ji之zh以y学xu问wn,岂q可k及j乎h。”子z路l曰yu:“学xu岂q益y哉zi也y?”孔kng子z曰yu:“夫f人rn君jn而r无w谏jin臣chn则z失sh正zhng,士sh而r无w教jio友yu则z失sh听tng。御y狂kung马m不b释sh策c,御y狂kung马m者zh不b得d释sh棰chu策c也y操co弓gng不b反fn檠qng。弓gng不b反fn于y檠qng然rn后hu可k持ch也y木m受shu绳shng则z直zh,人rn受shu谏jin则z圣shng,受shu学xu重zhng问wn,孰sh不b顺shn哉zi。毁hu仁rn恶仕sh,必b近jn于y刑xng。谤bng毁hu仁rn者zh憎zng怒n士sh人rn必b主zh于y刑xng也y君jn子z不b可k不b学xu。”子z路l曰yu:“南nn山shn有yu竹zh,不b柔ru自z直zh,斩zhn而r用yng之zh,达d于y犀x革g。以y此c言yn之zh,何h学xu之zh有yu?”孔kng子z曰yu:“括ku而r羽y之zh,镞z而r砺l之zh,其q入r之zh不b亦y深shn乎h。”子z路l再zi拜bi曰yu:“敬jng而r受shu教jio。” 子z路l将jing行xng,辞c于y孔kng子z。子z曰yu:“赠zng汝r以y车ch乎h?赠zng汝r以y言yn乎h?”子z路l曰yu:“请qng以y言yn。”孔kng子z曰yu:“不b强qing不b达d,人rn不b以y强qing力l则z不b能nng自z达d不b劳lo无w功gng,不b忠zhng无w亲qn,不b信xn无w复f,信xn近jn于y义y言yn可k复f也y今jn而r不b信xn则z无w可k复f不b恭gng失sh礼l,慎shn此c五w者zh而r矣y。”子z路l曰yu:“由yu请qng终zhng身shn奉fng之zh。敢gn问wn亲qn交jio取q亲qn若ru何h?言yn寡gu可k行xng若ru何h?长chng为wi善shn士sh而r无w犯fn若ru何h?”孔kng子z曰yu:“汝r所su问wn苞bo在zi五w者zh中zhng矣y。亲qn交jio取q亲qn,其q忠zhng也y;言yn寡gu可k行xng,其q信xn乎h;长chng为wi善shn士sh,而r无w犯fn于y礼l也y。” 孔kng子z为wi鲁l司s寇ku,见jin季j康kng子zi,康kng子z不b悦yu。当dng为wi桓hun子zi非fi康kng子z也y孔kng子z又yu见jin之zh。宰zi予y进jn曰yu:“昔x予y也y常chng闻wn诸zh夫f子z曰yu,王wng公gng不b我w聘pn则z弗f动dng,今jn夫f子z之zh于y司s寇ku也y日r少sho,谓wi在zi司s寇ku官gun少sho日r浅qin而r屈q节ji数sh矣y,谓wi屈q节ji数sh见jin于y季j孙sn不b可k以y已y乎h?”孔kng子z曰yu:“然rn,鲁l国gu以y众zhng相xing陵lng,以y兵bng相xing暴bo之zh日r久ji矣y,而r有yu司s不b治zh,则z将jing乱lun也y,其q聘pn我w者zh,孰sh大d于y是sh哉zi。”言yn聘pn我w使sh在zi官gun其q为wi治zh岂q复f可k大d于y此c者zh也y鲁l人rn闻wn之zh曰yu:“圣shng人rn将jing治zh,何h不b先xin自z远yun刑xng罚f,自z此c之zh后hu,国gu无w争zhng者zh。”孔kng子z谓wi宰zi予y曰yu:“违wi山shn十sh里l,蟪hu蛄g之zh声shng,犹yu在zi于y耳r,故g政zhng事sh莫m如r应yng之zh。”违wi去q也y蟪hu蛄g蛁dio蟟lio也y蛁dio蟟lio之zh声shng去q山shn十sh里l犹yu在zi于y耳r以y其q鸣mng而r不b已y言yn政zhng事sh须x慎shn听tng之zh然rn后hu行xng之zh者zh也y 孔kng子z兄xing子z有yu孔kng篾mi者zh,与y宓m子zi贱jin偕xi仕sh。孔kng子z?過gu孔kng篾mi,而r問wn之zh曰yu:“自z汝r之zh仕sh,何h得de何h亡wng?”对du曰yu:“未wi有yu所su得d,而r所su亡wng者zh三sn,王wng事sh若ru龙lng,龙lng宜y为wi詟zh前qin后hu相xing因yn也y学xu焉yn得d习x,言yn不b得d习x学xu也y是sh学xu不b得d明mng也y;俸fng禄l少sho饘zhn粥zhu,不b及j亲qn戚q,是sh以y骨g肉ru益y疏sh也y;公gng事sh多du急j,不b得d吊dio死s问wn疾j,是sh朋png友yu之zh道do阙qu也y。其q所su亡wng者zh三sn,即j谓wi此c也y。”孔kng子z不b悦yu,?过gu子zi贱jin,问wn如r孔kng篾mi。对du曰yu:“自z来li仕sh者zh无w所su亡wng,其q有yu所su得d者zh三sn,始sh诵sng之zh,今jn得d而r行xng之zh,是sh学xu益y明mng也y;俸fng禄l所su供gng,被bi及j亲qn戚q,是sh骨g肉ru益y亲qn也y;虽su有yu公gng事sh,而r兼jin以y吊dio死s问wn疾j,是sh朋png友yu笃d也y。”孔kng子z喟ku然rn,谓wi子zi贱jin曰yu:“君jn子z哉zi若ru人rn。若ru人rn犹yu言yn是sh人rn者zh也y鲁l无w君jn子z者zh,则z子zi贱jin焉yn取q此c。”如r鲁l无w君jn子z者zh此c人rn安n得d而r学xu之zh言yn鲁l有yu君jn子z也y 孔kng子z侍sh坐zu于y哀i公gng,赐c之zh桃to与y黍sh焉yn。哀i公gng曰yu:“请qng食sh。”孔kng子z先xin食sh黍sh而r后hu食sh桃to,左zu右yu皆ji掩yn口ku而r笑xio。公gng曰yu:“黍sh者zh所su以y雪xu雪xu拭sh桃to,非fi为wi食sh之zh也y。”孔kng子z对du曰yu:“丘qi知zh之zh矣y,然rn夫f黍sh者zh,五w谷g之zh长chng,郊jio礼l宗zng庙mio以y为wi上shng盛shng,?属sh有yu六li而r桃to为wi下xi,祭j祀s不b用yng,不b登dng郊jio庙mio,丘qi闻wn之zh君jn子z以y贱jin雪xu贵gu,不b闻wn以y贵gu雪xu贱jin,今jn以y五w谷g之zh长chng,雪xu?之zh下xi者zh,是sh从cng上shng雪xu下xi,臣chn以y为wi妨fng于y教jio,害hi于y义y,故g不b敢gn。”公gng曰yu:“善shn哉zi。” 子z贡gng曰yu:“陈chn灵lng公gng宣xun淫yn于y朝cho,灵lng公gng与y卿qng共gng淫yn夏xi姬j泄xi治zh正zhng谏jin而r杀sh之zh,是sh与y比b干gn谏jin而r死s同tng,可k谓wi仁rn乎h?”子z曰yu:“比b干gn于y纣zhu,亲qn则z诸zh父f,官gun则z少sho师sh,忠zhng报bo之zh心xn在zi于y宗zng庙mio而r已y,固g必b以y死s争zhng之zh,冀j身shn死s之zh后hu,纣zhu将jing悔hu寤w其q本bn志zh,情qng在zi于y仁rn者zh也y;泄xi治zh之zh于y灵lng公gng,位wi在zi大di夫f,无w骨g肉ru之zh亲qn,怀hui宠chng不b去q,仕sh于y乱lun朝cho,以y区q区q之zh一y身shn,欲y正zhng一y国gu之zh淫yn昏hn,死s而r无w益y,可k谓wi捐jun矣y。诗sh云yn:‘民mn之zh多du辟p,无w自z立l辟p。僻p邪xi辟p’其q泄xi治zh之zh谓wi乎h。” 孔kng子z相xing鲁l,齐q人rn患hun其q将jing霸b,欲y败bi其q政zhng,乃ni选xun好ho女n子z八b十sh人rn,衣y以y文wn饰sh而r舞w容rng玑j,容rng玑j舞w曲q及j文wn马m四s十sh驷s,驷s四s马m也y以y遗y鲁l君jn,陈chn女n乐l,列li文wn马m于y鲁l城chng南nn高go门mn外wi,季j桓hun子zi微wi服f?观gun之zh再zi三sn,将jing受shu焉yn,告go鲁l君jn为wi周zhu道do游yu观gun,观gun之zh终zhng日r,怠di于y政zhng事sh。子z路l言yn于y孔kng子z曰yu:“夫f子z可k以y行xng矣y。”孔kng子z曰yu:“鲁l今jn且qi郊jio,若ru致zh膰fn于y大di夫f,膰fn祭j肉ru也y是sh则z未wi废fi其q常chng,吾w犹yu可k以y止zh也y。”桓hun子zi既j受shu女n乐l,君jn臣chn淫yn荒hung,三sn日r不b听tng国gu政zhng,郊jio又yu不b致zh膰fn俎z,孔kng子z遂su行xng。宿s于y郭gu,屯tn师sh以y送sng曰yu:“夫f子z非fi罪zu也y。”孔kng子z曰yu:“吾w歌g可k乎h?歌g曰yu:‘彼b妇f人rn之zh口ku,可k以y出ch走zu,彼b妇f人rn之zh请qng,可k以y死s败bi。言yn妇f人rn口ku请qng谒y足z以y使sh人rn死s败bi故g可k出ch走zu优yu哉zi游yu哉zi,聊lio以y卒z岁su。言yn士sh不b遇y优yu游yu以y终zhng岁su也y’” 澹tn台ti子zi羽y有yu君jn子z之zh容rng,而r行xng不b胜shng其q貌mo,宰zi我w有yu文wn雅y之zh辞c,而r智zh不b充chng其q辩bin。孔kng子z曰yu:“里l语y云yn:‘相xing马m以y舆y,相xing士sh以y居j,弗f可k废fi矣y。’以y容rng取q人rn,则z失sh之zh子z羽y;以y辞c取q人rn,则z失sh之zh宰zi予y。”孔kng子z曰yu:“君jn子z以y其q所su不b能nng畏wi人rn,小xio人rn以y其q所su不b能nng不b信xn人rn。故g君jn子z长chng人rn之zh才ci,小xio人rn抑y人rn而r取q胜shng焉yn。” 孔kng篾mi问wn行xng己j之zh道do。子z曰yu:“知zh而r弗f为wi,莫m如r勿w知亲qn而r弗f信xn,莫m如r勿w亲qn。乐l之zh方fng至zh,乐l而r勿w骄患hun之zh将jing至zh,思s而r勿w忧yu。”孔kng篾mi曰yu:“行xng己j乎h?”子z曰yu:“攻gng其q所su不b能nng,补b其q所su不b备bi。毋w以y其q所su不b能nng疑y人rn,毋w以y其q所su能nng骄jio人rn。终zhng日r言yn,无w遗y己j之zh忧yu,终zhng日r行xng,不b遗y己j患hun,唯wi智zh者zh有yu之zh。”