孔子家语六本第十五原文拼音版 《孔kng子z家ji语y六li本bn》 孔kng子z曰yu:“行xng己j有yu六li本bn焉yn,然rn后hu为wi君jn子z也y。立l身shn有yu义y矣y,而r孝xio为wi本丧sng纪j有yu礼l矣y,而r哀i为wi本战zhn阵zhn有yu列li矣y,而r勇yng为wi本治zh政zhng有yu理l矣y,而r农nng为wi本居j国gu有yu道do矣y,而r嗣s为wi本生shng财ci有yu时sh矣y,而r力l为wi本bn。置zh本bn不b固g,无w务w农nng桑亲qn戚q不b悦yu,无w务w外wi交事sh不b终zhng始sh,无w务w多du业y;记j闻wn而r言yn,无w务w多du说比b近jn不b安n,无w务w求qi远yun。是sh故g反fn本bn修xi迹j,君jn子z之zh道do也y。” 孔kng子z曰yu:“药yo酒ji苦k于y口ku而r利l于y病bng,忠zhng言yn逆n于y耳r而r利l于y行xng。汤tng、武w以y谔谔而r昌chng,桀ji、纣zhu以y唯wi唯wi而r亡wng。君jn无w争zhng臣chn,父f无w争zhng子zi,兄xing无w争zhng弟d,士sh无w争zhng友yu,无w其q过gu者zh,未wi之zh有yu也y。故g曰yu:君jn失sh之zh,臣chn得d之父f失sh之zh,子z得d之兄xing失sh之zh,弟d得d之己j失sh之zh,友yu得d之zh。是sh以y国gu无w危wi亡wng之zh兆zho,家ji无w悖bi乱lun之zh恶,父f子z兄xing弟d无w失sh,而r交jio友yu无w绝ju也y。” 孔kng子z在zi齐q,舍sh于y外wi馆gun,景jng公gng造zo焉yn。宾bn主zh之zh辞c既j接ji,而r左zu右yu白bi曰yu:“周zhu使sh适sh至zh,言yn先xin王wng庙mio灾zi。”景jng公gng复f问wn:“灾zi何h王wng之zh庙mio也y?”孔kng子z曰yu:“此c必b厘l王wng之zh庙mio。”公gng曰yu:“何h以y知zh之zh?”孔kng子z曰yu:“《诗sh》云yn:‘皇hung皇hung上shng天tin,其q命mng不b忒tu,天tin之zh以y善shn,必b报bo其q德d。’祸hu亦y如r之zh。夫f厘l王wng变bin文wn、武w之zh制zh,而r作zu玄xun黄hung华hu丽l之zh饰sh,宫gng室sh崇chng峻jn,舆y马m奢sh侈ch,而r弗f可k振zhn也y。故g天tin殃yng所su宜y加ji其q庙mio焉yn。以y是sh占zhn之zh为wi然rn。”公gng曰yu:“天tin何h不b殃yng其q身shn,而r加ji罚f其q庙mio也y?”孔kng子z曰yu:“盖gi以y文wn、武w故g也y。若ru殃yng其q身shn,则z文wn武w之zh嗣s无w乃ni殄tin乎h?故g当dng殃yng其q庙mio以y彰zhng其q过gu。”俄顷qng,左zu右yu报bo曰yu:“所su灾zi者zh厘l王wng庙mio也y。”景jng公gng惊jng起q,再zi拜bi曰yu:“善shn哉zi!圣shng之zh智zh,过gu人rn远yun矣y!” 子z贡gng三sn年nin之zh丧sng毕b,见jin于y孔kng子z。子z曰yu:“与y之zh琴qn。使sh之zh弦xin。”侃kn侃kn而r乐l,作zu而r曰yu:“先xin王wng制zh礼l,不b敢gn不b及j。”子z曰yu:“君jn子z也y!”闵mn子z三sn年nin之zh丧sng毕b,见jin于y孔kng子z。子z曰yu:“与y之zh琴qn,使sh之zh弦xin。”切qi切qi而r悲bi,作zu而r曰yu:“先xin王wng制zh礼l,弗f敢gn过gu也y。”子z曰yu:“君jn子z也y!”子z贡gng曰yu:“闵mn子z哀i未wi尽jn,夫f子z曰yu:君jn子z也y。子z夏xi哀i已y尽jn,又yu曰yu:君jn子z也y。二r者zh殊sh情qng,而r俱j曰yu君jn子z,赐c也y惑hu,敢gn问wn之zh。”孔kng子z曰yu:“闵mn子z哀i未wi忘wng,能nng断dun之zh以y礼l;子z夏xi哀i已y尽jn,能nng引yn之zh及j礼l;虽su均jn之zh君jn子z,不b亦y可k乎h?” 孔kng子z曰yu:“无w体t之zh礼l,敬jng也y;无w服f之zh丧sng,哀i也y;无w声shng之zh乐l,欢hun也y。不b言yn而r信xn,不b动dng而r威wi,不b施sh而r仁rn,志zh。夫f钟zhng之zh音yn,怒n而r击j之zh则z武w,忧yu而r击j之zh则z悲bi。其q志zh变bin者zh,声shng亦y随su之zh,故g至zh诚chng感gn之zh,通tng于y金jn石sh,而r况kung人rn乎h?” 孔kng子z见jin罗lu雀qu者zh,所su得d皆ji黄hung口ku小xio雀qu。夫f子z问wn之zh曰yu:“大d雀qu独d不b得d,何h也y?”罗lu者zh曰yu:“大d雀qu善shn惊jng而r难nn得d,黄hung口ku贪tn食sh而r易y得d。黄hung口ku从cng大d雀qu,则z不b得d;大d雀qu从cng黄hung口ku,亦y不b得d。”孔kng子z顾g谓wi弟d子z曰yu:“善shn惊jng以y远yun害hi,利l食sh而r忘wng患hun,自z其q心xn矣y,而r独d以y所su从cng为wi祸hu福f。故g君jn子z慎shn其q所su从cng。以y长zhng者zh之zh虑l,则z有yu全qun身shn之zh阶随su小xio者zh之zh戆gng,而r有yu危wi亡wng之zh败bi也y。” 孔kng子z读d《易y》,至zh于y《损sn》、《益y》,喟ku然rn而r叹tn。子z夏xi避b席x问wn曰yu:“夫f子z何h叹tn焉yn?”孔kng子z曰yu:“夫f自z损sn者zh必b有yu益y之zh,自z益y者zh必b有yu决ju之zh,吾w是sh以y叹tn也y。”子z夏xi曰yu:“然rn则z学xu者zh不b可k以y益y乎h?”子z曰yu:“非fi道do益y之zh谓wi也y,道do弥m益y而r身shn弥m损sn。夫f学xu者zh损sn其q自z多du,以y虚x受shu人rn,故g能nng成chng其q满mn博b也y。天tin道do成chng而r必b变bin,凡fn持ch满mn而r能nng久ji者zh,未wi尝chng有yu也y。故g曰yu:自z贤xin者zh,天tin下xi之zh善shn言yn不b得d闻wn于y耳r矣y。昔x尧yo治zh天tin下xi之zh位wi,犹yu允yn恭gng以y持ch之zh,克k让rng以y接ji下xi,是sh以y千qin岁su而r益y盛shng,迄q今jn而r逾y彰zhng。夏xi桀ji、昆kn吾w,自z满mn而r无w极j,亢kng意y而r不b节ji,斩zhn刈y黎l民mn,如r草co芥ji焉天tin下xi讨to之zh,如r诛zh匹p夫f,是sh以y千qin载zi而r恶著zh,迄q今jn而r不b灭mi。满mn也y。如r在zi舆y遇y三sn人rn则z下xi之zh,遇y二r人rn则z式sh之zh,调dio其q盈yng虚x,不b令lng自z满mn,所su以y能nng久ji也y。”子z夏xi曰yu:“商shng请qng志zh之zh。”而r终zhng身shn奉fng行xng焉yn。 子z路l问wn于y孔kng子z曰yu:“请qng释sh古g之zh道do而r行xng由yu之zh意y,可k乎h?”子z曰yu:“不b可k。昔x东dng夷y之zh子z,慕m诸zh夏xi之zh礼l,有yu女n而r寡gu,为wi内ni私s壻x,终zhng身shn不b嫁ji。嫁ji则z不b嫁ji矣y,亦y非fi贞zhn节ji之zh义y也y。苍cng梧w娆ro娶q妻q而r美mi,让rng与y其q兄xing。让rng则z让rng矣y,然rn非fi礼l之zh让rng也y。不b慎shn其q初ch,而r悔hu其q后hu,何h嗟ji及j矣y。今jn汝r欲y舍sh古g之zh道do,行xng子zi之zh意y,庸yng知zh子zi意y不b以y是sh为wi非fi,以y非fi为wi是sh乎h?后hu虽su欲y悔hu,难nn哉zi!” 曾zng子z耘yn瓜gu,误w斩zhn其q根gn。曾cng晢zh怒n,建jin大d杖zhng以y击j其q背bi,曾zng子z仆p地d而r不b知zh人rn久ji之zh。有yu顷qng乃ni苏s,欣xn然rn而r起q,进jn于y曾cng晢zh曰yu:“向xing也y参cn得d罪zu于y大d人rn,大d人rn用yng力l教jio参cn,得d无w疾j乎h?”退tu而r就ji房fng,援yun琴qn而r歌g,欲y令lng曾cng晳x而r闻wn之zh,知zh其q体t康kng也y。孔kng子z闻wn之zh而r怒n,告go门mn弟d子z曰yu:“参cn来li,勿w内ni。”曾cng参cn自z以y为wi无w罪zu,使sh人rn请qng于y孔kng子z。子z曰yu:“汝r不b闻wn乎h?昔x瞽g瞍su有yu子z曰yu舜shn,舜shn之zh事sh瞽g瞍su,欲y使sh之zh,未wi尝chng不b在zi于y侧c;索su而r杀sh之zh,未wi尝chng可k得d。小xio棰chu则z待di过gu,大d杖zhng则z逃to走zu,故g瞽g瞍su不b犯fn不b父f之zh罪zu,而r舜shn不b失sh烝zhng烝zhng之zh孝xio。今jn参cn事sh父f,委wi身shn以y待di暴bo怒n,殪y而r不b避b,既j身shn死s而r陷xin父f于y不b义y,其q不b孝xio孰sh大d焉yn!汝r非fi天tin子z之zh民mn也y,杀sh天tin子z之zh民mn,其q罪zu奚x若ru?”曾cng参cn闻wn之zh,曰yu:“参cn罪zu大d矣y!”遂su造zo孔kng子z而r谢xi过gu。 荆jng公gng子z行xng年nin十sh五w而r摄sh荆jng相xing事sh,孔kng子z闻wn之zh,使sh人rn往wng观gun其q为wi政zhng焉yn。使sh者zh反fn,曰yu:“视sh其q朝cho,清qng净jng而r少sho事其q堂tng上shng有yu五w老lo焉yn,其q廊lng下xi有yu二r十sh壮zhung士sh焉yn。”孔kng子z曰yu:“合h两ling二r十sh五w之zh智zh,以y治zh天tin下xi,其q固g免min矣y,况kung荆jng乎h?” 子z夏xi问wn于y孔kng子z曰yu:“颜yn回hu之zh为wi人rn奚x若ru?”子z曰yu:“回hu之zh信xn贤xin于y丘qi。”曰yu:“子z贡gng之zh为wi人rn奚x若ru?”子z曰yu:“赐c之zh敏mn贤xin于y丘qi。”曰yu:“子z路l之zh为wi人rn奚x若ru?”子z曰yu:“由yu之zh勇yng贤xin于y丘qi。”曰yu:“子z张zhng之zh为wi人rn奚x若ru?”子z曰yu:“师sh之zh庄zhung贤xin于y丘qi。”子z夏xi避b席x而r问wn曰yu:“然rn则z四s子z何h为wi事sh先xin生shng?”子z曰yu:“居j!吾w语y汝r。夫f回hu能nng信xn而r不b能nng反fn,赐c能nng敏mn而r不b能nng诎q,由yu能nng勇yng而r不b能nng怯qi,师sh能nng庄zhung而r不b能nng同tng。兼jin四s子z者zh之zh有yu以y易y吾w,弗f与y也y。此c其q所su以y事sh吾w而r弗f贰r也y。” 孔kng子z游yu于y泰ti山shn,见jin荣rng声shng期q,行xng乎h郕chng之zh野y,鹿l裘qi带di索su,鼓g琴qn而r歌g。孔kng子z问wn曰yu:“先xin生shng所su以y为wi乐l者zh何h也y?”期q对du曰yu:“吾w乐l甚shn多du,而r至zh者zh三sn。天tin生shng万wn物w,唯wi人rn为wi贵gu,吾w既j得de为wi人rn,是sh一y乐l也y;男nn女n之zh别bi,男nn尊zn女n卑bi,故g人rn以y男nn为wi贵gu,吾w既j得de为wi男nn,是sh二r乐l也y;人rn生shng有yu不b见jin日r月yu,不b免min襁qing褓bo者zh,吾w既j以y行xng年nin九ji十sh五w矣y,是sh三sn乐l也y。贫pn者zh士sh之zh常chng,死s者zh人rn之zh终zhng。处ch常chng得d终zhng,当dng何h忧yu哉zi!”孔kng子z曰yu:“善shn哉zi!能nng自z宽kun者zh也y。” 孔kng子z曰yu:“回hu有yu君jn子z之zh道do四s焉yn。强qing于y行xng义y,弱ru于y受shu谏jin,怵ch于y待di禄l,慎shn于y治zh身shn。史sh鰌qi有yu君jn子z之zh道do三sn焉yn。不b仕sh而r敬jng上shng,不b祀s而r敬jng鬼gu,直zh己j而r曲q于y人rn。”曾zng子z侍sh,曰yu:“参cn昔x者zh常chng闻wn夫f子z三sn言yn,而r未wi之zh能nng行xng也y。夫f子z见jin人rn之zh一y善shn,而r忘wng其q百bi非fi,是sh夫f子z之zh易y事sh也y;见jin人rn之zh有yu善shn,若ru己j有yu之zh,是sh夫f子z之zh不b争zhng也y;闻wn善shn必b躬gng行xng之zh,然rn后hu导do之zh,是sh夫f子z之zh能nng劳lo也y。学xu夫f子z之zh三sn言yn,而r未wi能nng行xng,以y自z知zh终zhng不b及j二r子z者zh也y。” 孔kng子z曰yu:“吾w死s之zh后hu,则z商shng也y日r益y,赐c也y日r损sn。”曾zng子z曰yu:“何h谓wi也y?”子z曰yu:“商shng也y好ho与y贤xin己j者zh处ch,赐c也y好ho说shu不b若ru己j者zh。不b知zh其q子z,视sh其q父f;不b知zh其q人rn,视sh其q友不b知zh其q君jn,视sh其q所su使不b知zh其q地d,视sh其q草co木m。故g曰yu:与y善shn人rn居j,如r入r芝zh兰ln之zh室sh,久ji而r不b闻wn其q香xing,即j与y之zh化hu矣y;与y不b善shn人rn居j,如r入r鲍bo鱼y之zh肆s,久ji而r不b闻wn其q臭chu,亦y与y之zh化hu矣y。丹dn之zh所su藏cng者zh赤ch,漆q之zh所su藏cng者zh黑hi。是sh以y君jn子z必b慎shn其q所su与y处ch者zh焉yn。” 曾zng子z从cng孔kng子z于y齐q,齐q景jng公gng以y下xi卿qng之zh礼l聘pn曾zng子z,曾zng子z固g辞c。将jing行xng,晏yn子z送sng之zh,曰yu:“吾w闻wn之zh,君jn子z遗y人rn以y财ci,不b若ru善shn言yn。今jn夫f兰ln本bn三sn年nin,湛zhn之zh以y鹿l醢hi,既j成chng啖dn之zh,则z易y之zh匹p马m,非fi兰ln之zh本bn性xng也y,所su以y湛zhn者zh美mi矣y。愿yun子zi详xing其q所su湛zhn者zh。夫f君jn子z居j必b择z处ch,游yu必b择z方fng,仕sh必b择z君jn。择z君jn所su以y求qi仕sh,择z方fng所su以y修xi道do。迁qin风fng移y俗s,嗜sh欲y移y性xng,可k不b慎shn乎h?”孔kng子z闻wn之zh,曰yu:“晏yn子z之zh言yn,君jn子z哉zi!依y贤xin者zh,固g不b困依y富f者zh,固g不b穷qing。马m蚿xin斩zhn足z而r复f行xng,何h也y?以y其q辅f之zh者zh众zhng。” 孔kng子z曰yu:“以y富f贵gu而r下xi人rn,何h人rn不b?以y富f贵gu而r爱i人rn,何h人rn不b亲qn?发f言yn不b逆n,可k谓wi知zh言yn矣y;言yn而r众zhng响xing之zh,可k谓wi知zh时sh矣y。是sh故g以y富f而r能nng富f人rn者zh,欲y贫pn不b可k得d也y;以y贵gu而r能nng贵gu人rn者zh,欲y贱jin不b可k得d也y;以y达d而r能nng达d人rn者zh,欲y穷qing不b可k得d也y。” 孔kng子z曰yu:“中zhng人rn之zh情qng也y,有yu馀y则z侈ch,不b足z则z俭jin,无w禁jn则z淫yn,无w度d则z逸y,从cng欲y则z败bi。是sh故g鞭bin扑p之zh子z,不b从cng父f之zh教刑xng戮l之zh民mn,不b从cng君jn之zh令lng。此c言yn疾j之zh难nn忍rn,急j之zh难nn行xng也y。故g君jn子z不b急j断dun,不b急j制zh。使sh饮yn食sh有yu量ling,衣y食sh有yu节ji,宫gng室sh有yu度d,畜ch积j有yu数sh,车ch器q有yu限xin,所su以y防fng乱lun之zh原yun也y。”夫f度d量ling不b可k明mng,是sh中zhng人rn所su由yu之zh令lng。 孔kng子z曰yu:“巧qio而r好ho度d必b攻gng,勇yng而r好ho问wn必b胜shng,智zh而r好ho谋mu必b成chng。以y愚y者zh反fn之zh。是sh以y非fi其q人rn,告go之zh弗f听非fi其q地d,树sh之zh弗f生得d其q人rn,如r聚j砂sh而r雨y之非fi其q人rn,如r会hu聋lng而r鼓g之zh。夫f处ch重zhng擅shn宠chng,专zhun事sh妬d贤xin,愚y者zh之zh情qng也y。位wi高go则z危wi,任rn重zhng则z崩bng,可k立l而r待di。” 孔kng子z曰yu:“舟zhu非fi水shu不b行xng,水shu入r舟zhu则z没君jn非fi民mn不b治zh,民mn犯fn上shng则z倾qng。”是sh故g君jn子z不b可k不b严yn也y,小xio人rn不b可k不b整zhng一y也y。 齐q高go庭tng问wn于y孔kng子z曰yu:“庭tng不b旷kung山shn,不b直zh地d,衣y穰rng而r提t贽zh,精jng气q以y问wn事sh君jn子z之zh道do,愿yun夫f子z告go之zh。”孔kng子z曰yu:“贞zhn以y干gn之zh,敬jng以y辅f之zh,施sh仁rn无w倦jun。见jin君jn子z则z举j之zh,见jin小xio人rn则z退tu之zh,去q汝r恶心xn,而r忠zhng与y之zh。效xio其q行xng,修xi其q礼l,千qin里l之zh外wi,亲qn如r兄xing弟d。行xng不b效xio,礼l不b修xi,则z对du门mn不b汝r通tng矣y。夫f终zhng日r言yn,不b遗y己j之zh忧终zhng日r行xng,不b遗y己j之zh患唯wi智zh者zh能nng之zh。故g自z修xi者zh,必b恐kng惧j以y除ch患hun,恭gng俭jin以y避b难nn者zh也y。终zhng身shn为wi善shn,一y言yn则z败bi之zh,可k不b慎shn乎h。”