标题：Canfairytaleshelpmeunderstandmyself？ 作者：Psychologies 原文链接：https：www。psychologies。co。ukcanfairytaleshelpmeunderstandmyself 翻译请保留原文链接哦 欲翻译的小伙伴，可评论领稿，并把已完成的译文发在自己的心理圈or个人主页的日志内。请领稿的小伙伴，尽量在一个星期内完成翻译，谢谢！！ FromthefirstversionofCinderellawhichoriginatedinIndia，totheBrothersGrimmcollection，westilltellfairytalestoday，andeachonehasmeaning。Butdon’tassumeyouonlyplaytheheroineprincessroleinyourlife。There’sabigbadwolf，awickedstepmotherandaheroicprinceinallofus。‘Allthesecharactersportrayemotionsandproblemswecanrelatetotoday，’explainsDavies，authorofBeYourOwnFairyTale。‘Forexample，envy，fear，vanity，insecurityandaneedtobeloved。Thisiswhyfairytalesresonatesopowerfullywithus。’Understandingwhatthesecharactersrepresentinuscanhelpthewayweperceiveandrewriteourownfairytales。 1。HeroinePrincess Ourheroineisn’talwaysanactualprincess，butshe’thinkLittleRedRidingHoodorSleepingBeauty。Aspartofthestory，she’llhavetogothroughsomesortoftransformation。Forexample，SleepingBeautyfallsintoadeepslumberonher16thbirthday。Thelongsleeprepresentsherjourneyintowomanhood。Inreality，weallendurehardshipandpain，theexperienceofwhichoftenmakesusstronger，bringingoutourbestqualitiesandshowinguswhatwe’recapableofachieving。 2。WickedStepmotherEvilQueen Ieitherastepmotheroranevilqueenwho’susurpedthethrone。InSnowWhite，wehavetheevilqueenwho’inRapunzelit’sthewitchwholocksherinthetower。Thischaracterwilldoanythingtogaincontrolandcanbelinkedtotheegoanditshungryneedforpower。Ifyoufeeldrawntothischaracter，ordeeplyalarmedbyher，takealookatyoursenseofselfimportance。Perhapsyoualwaysputyourselfdown，andhavelowselfesteem。 3。HeroPrince It’salwaystheprinceortheyounghaplessherowhoendsupsavingtheday。InSleepingBeauty，hebattlestheforcesofnaturetogivetheprincessakissthatbringsherbacktolife。Hemayhavetogoonajourneyfirst。Hemayhavetolearnsomethingalongthewayorfacesomekindofchallengetoprovehisworth。Justlikethetalesthemselves，whichgrowandchangewitheachtelling，theheromustalsodevelop。Theheroisnot100percentconfidentorsecureinhimself，butthat’swhywelikehim。Weidentifywithhisstruggleandwecanmakeitourown。Theherogivesusasenseofhope，thatnomatterwhathappens，orwhatmistakeswemake，wetoocantriumphagainsttheodds。 4。BigBadWolf Thewolfappearsinmorethanonefairytale，fromLittleRedRidingHoodtoTheThreeLittlePigs。He’he’salwaysuptonogoodandthere’susuallyafittingendforthispopularvillain。ButtheBigBadWolfisoftenmisunderstood。Togettogripswithhishim，thinkabouthismotivation。Whydoeshedressupingrandma’sclothesinLittleRedRidingHoodandpretendtobesomethinghe’snot？Inthestory，it’sbecausehewantstoeatLittleRedRidingHoodheneedssustenanceandtogetit，heusesdeception。Weoftentakeondifferentrolesinlifeandpretendtobesomethingwe’renot，becausewe’retryingtosucceedandpleaseothers。Whenwedothis，we’rebeingtheBigBadWolf。Butthatdoesn’tnecessarilymeanwe’recomingfromabadplace。Askyourselfhowmanydifferentrolesyouplay，andconsiderwhichversionsofyoumakeyouhappy，andwhichonesmakeyouuncomfor。 AdaptedfromBeYourOwnFairyTale：WorkingwithStorytellingforPositiveLifeChangebyAlisonDavies
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