孔子家语屈节解第三十七原文拼音版 《孔kng子z家ji语y屈q节ji解ji》 子z路l问wn于y孔kng子z曰yu:“由yu闻wn丈zhng夫f居j世sh,富f贵gu不b能nng有yu益y于y物w;处ch贫pn贱jin之zh地d,而r不b能nng屈q节ji以y求qi伸shn,则z不b足z以y论ln乎h人rn之zh域y矣y。”孔kng子z曰yu:“君jn子z之zh行xng己j,期q于y必b达d于y己j。可k以y屈q则z屈q,可k以y伸shn则z伸shn。故g屈q节ji者zh,所su以y有yu待求qi伸shn者zh,所su以y及j时sh。是sh以y虽su受shu屈q而r不b毁hu其q节ji,志zh达d而r不b犯fn于y义y。” 孔kng子z在zi卫wi,闻wn齐q国gu田tin常chng将jing欲y为wi乱lun,而r惮dn鲍bo晏yn,因yn欲y移y其q兵bng以y伐f鲁l。孔kng子z会hu诸zh弟d子z而r告go之zh曰yu:“鲁l父f母m之zh国gu,不b可k不b救ji,不b忍rn视sh其q受shu敌d,今jn吾w欲y屈q节ji于y田tin常chng以y救ji鲁l,二r三sn子z谁shi为wi使sh?”于y是sh子z路l曰yu:“请qng往wng齐q。”孔kng子z弗f许x。子z张zhng请qng往wng,又yu弗f许x。子z石sh请qng往wng,又yu弗f许x。三sn子z退tu谓wi子zi贡gng曰yu:“今jn夫f子z欲y屈q节ji以y救ji父f母m之zh国gu,吾w三sn人rn请qng使sh而r不b获hu往wng,此c则z吾w子z用yng辩bin之zh时sh也y,吾w子z盍h请qng行xng焉yn?”子z贡gng请qng使sh,夫f子z许x之zh。遂su如r齐q,说shu田tin常chng曰yu:“今jn子z欲y收shu功gng于y鲁l实sh难nn,不b若ru移y兵bng于y吴w则z易y。”田tin常chng不b悦yu。子z贡gng曰yu:“夫f忧yu在zi内ni者zh攻gng强qing,忧yu在zi外wi者zh攻gng弱ru,吾w闻wn子zi三sn封fng而r三sn不b成chng,是sh则z大d臣chn不b听tng令lng,战zhn胜shng以y骄jio主zh,破p国gu以y尊zn臣chn,而r子z之zh功gng不b与y焉yn,则z交jio日r疏sh于y主zh,而r与y大d臣chn争zhng,如r此c则z子zi之zh位wi危wi矣y。”田tin常chng曰yu:“善shn,然rn兵bng甲ji已y加ji鲁l矣y,不b可k更gng,如r何h?”子z贡gng曰yu:“缓hun师sh,吾w请qng于y吴w,令lng救ji鲁l而r伐f齐q,子z因yn以y兵bng迎yng之zh。”田tin常chng许x诺nu。 子z贡gng遂su南nn说shu吴w王wng曰yu:“王wng者zh不b灭mi国gu,霸b者zh无w强qing敌d,千qin钧jn之zh重zhng,加ji铢zh两ling而r移y,今jn以y齐q国gu而r私s千qin乘shng之zh鲁l,与y吾w争zhng强qing,甚shn为wi王wng患hun之zh。且qi夫f救ji鲁l以y显xin名mng,以y抚f泗s上shng诸zh侯hu,诛zh暴bo齐q以y服f晋jn,利l莫m大d焉yn,名mng存cn亡wng鲁l,实sh困kn强qing齐q,智zh者zh不b疑y。”吴w王wng曰yu:“善shn,然rn吴w常chng困kn越yu,越yu王wng今jn苦k身shn养yng士sh,有yu报bo吴w之zh心xn,子z待di我w先xin越yu,然rn后hu乃ni可k。”子z贡gng曰yu:“越yu之zh劲jn不b过gu鲁l,吴w之zh强qing不b过gu齐q,而r王wng置zh齐q而r伐f越yu,则z齐q必b私s鲁l矣y,王wng方fng以y存cn亡wng继j绝ju之zh名mng,弃q齐q而r伐f小xio越yu,非fi勇yng也y,勇yng而r不b计j难nn,仁rn者zh不b穷qing约yu,智zh者zh不b失sh时sh,义y者zh不b绝ju世sh,今jn存cn越yu示sh天tin下xi以y仁rn,救ji鲁l伐f齐q,威wi加ji晋jn国gu,诸zh侯hu必b相xing率shui而r朝cho,霸b业y盛shng矣y。且qi王wng必b恶越yu,臣chn请qng见jin越yu君jn,令lng出ch兵bng以y从cng,此c则z实sh害hi越yu而r名mng从cng诸zh侯hu以y伐f齐q。”吴w王wng悦yu,乃ni遣qin子zi贡gng之zh越yu。 辱r而r临ln之zh?”子z贡gng曰yu:“今jn者zh吾w说shu吴w王wng以y救ji鲁l伐f齐q,其q志zh欲y之zh,而r心xn畏wi越yu,曰yu:‘待di我w伐f越yu而r后hu可k。’则z破p越yu必b矣y。且qi无w报bo人rn之zh志zh,而r令lng人rn疑y之zh,拙zhu矣y;有yu报bo人rn之zh意y,而r使sh人rn知zh之zh,殆di乎h;事sh未wi发f而r先xin闻wn者zh,危wi矣y。三sn者zh举j事sh之zh患hun矣y。”勾gu践jin顿dn首shu曰yu:“孤g尝chng不b料lio力l,而r兴xng吴w难nn,难nn乃ni旦dn反fn受shu困kn会kui稽j,痛tng于y骨g髓su,日r夜y焦jio唇chn干gn舌sh,徒t欲y与y吴w王wng接ji踵zhng而r死s,孤g之zh愿yun也y,今jn大di夫f幸xng告go以y利l害hi。”子z贡gng曰yu:“吴w王wng为wi人rn猛mng暴bo,群qn臣chn不b堪kn,国gu家ji疲p弊b,百bi姓xng怨yun上shng,大d臣chn内ni变bin,申shn胥x以y谏jin死s,大d宰zi嚭p用yng事sh,此c则z报bo吴w之zh时sh也y。王wng诚chng能nng发f卒z佐zu之zh,以y邀yo射sh其q志zh,而r重zhng宝bo以y悦yu其q心xn,卑bi辞c以y尊zn其q礼l,则z其q伐f齐q必b矣y,此c圣shng人rn所su谓wi屈q节ji求qi其q达d者zh也y。彼b战zhn不b胜shng王wng之zh福f,若ru胜shng,则z必b以y兵bng临ln晋jn,臣chn还hi北bi请qng见jin晋jn君jn共gng攻gng之zh,其q弱ru吴w必b矣y。锐ru兵bng尽jn于y齐q,重zhng甲ji困kn于y晋jn,而r王wng制zh其q弊b焉yn。”越yu王wng顿dn首shu,许x诺nu。 子z贡gng返fn五w日r,越yu使sh大di夫f文wn种zhng,顿dn首shu言yn于y吴w王wng曰yu:“越yu悉x境jng内ni之zh士sh三sn千qin人rn以y事sh吴w。”吴w王wng告go子z贡gng曰yu:“越yu王wng欲y身shn从cng寡gu人rn,可k乎h?”子z贡gng曰yu:“悉x人rn之zh率shui众zhng,又yu从cng其q君jn,非fi义y也y。”吴w王wng乃ni受shu越yu王wng卒z,谢xi留li勾gu践jin。遂su自z发f国gu内ni之zh兵bng以y伐f齐q,败bi之zh。子z贡gng遂su北bi见jin晋jn君jn,令lng承chng其q弊b,吴w晋jn遂su遇y于y黄hung池ch。越yu王wng袭x吴w之zh国gu,吴w王wng归gu与y越yu战zhn,灭mi焉yn。孔kng子z曰yu:“夫f其q乱lun齐q存cn鲁l,吾w之zh始sh愿yun,若ru能nng强qing晋jn以y弊b吴w,使sh吴w亡wng而r越yu霸b者zh,赐c之zh说shu之zh也y。美mi言yn伤shng信xn,慎shn言yn哉zi。” 孔kng子z弟d子z有yu宓m子zi贱jin者zh,仕sh于y鲁l为wi单dn父f宰zi,单dn音yn善shn恐kng鲁l君jn听tng谗chn言yn,使sh己j不b得d行xng其q政zhng,于y是sh辞c行xng,故g请qng君jn之zh近jn史sh二r人rn与y之zh俱j至zh官gun,宓m子zi戒ji其q邑y吏l,令lng二r史sh书sh,方fng书sh辄zh掣ch其q肘zhu,书sh不b善shn,则z从cng而r怒n之zh,二r史sh患hun之zh,辞c请qng归gu鲁l。宓m子z曰yu:“子z之zh书sh甚shn不b善shn,子z勉min而r归gu矣y。”二r史sh归gu报bo于y君jn曰yu:“宓m子zi使sh臣chn书sh而r掣ch肘zhu,书sh恶而r又yu怒n臣chn,邑y吏l皆ji笑xio之zh,此c臣chn所su以y去q之zh而r来li也y。”鲁l君jn以y问wn孔kng子z。子z曰yu:“宓m不b齐q,君jn子z也y,其q才ci任rn霸b王wng之zh佐zu,屈q节ji治zh单dn父f,将jing以y自z试sh也y,意y者zh以y此c为wi谏jin乎h?”公gng寤w,太ti息x而r叹tn曰yu:“此c寡gu人rn之zh不b肖xio,寡gu人rn乱lun宓m子zi之zh政zhng,而r责z其q善shn者zh,非fi矣y,微wi二r史sh,寡gu人rn无w以y知zh其q过gu,微wi夫f子z,寡gu人rn无w以y自z寤w。”遽j发f所su爱i之zh使sh告go宓m子z曰yu:“自z今jn已y往wng,单dn父f非fi吾w有yu也y,从cng子zi之zh制zh,有yu便bin于y民mn者zh,子z决ju为wi之zh,五w年nin一y言yn其q要yo。”宓m子zi敬jng奉fng诏zho,遂su得de行xng其q政zhng,于y是sh单dn父f治zh焉yn。躬gng敦dn厚hu,明mng亲qn亲qn,尚shng笃d敬jng,施sh至zh仁rn,加ji恳kn诚chng,致zh忠zhng信xn,百bi姓xng化hu之zh。齐q人rn攻gng鲁l,道do由yu单dn父f,单dn父f之zh老lo请qng曰yu:“麦mi已y熟sh矣y,今jn齐q寇ku至zh,不b及j人rn人rn自z收shu其q麦mi,请qng放fng民mn出ch,皆ji获hu传chun郭gu之zh麦mi,可k以y益y粮ling,且qi不b资z于y寇ku。”三sn请qng而r宓m子zi不b听tng。俄而r齐q寇ku逮di于y麦mi,季j孙sn闻wn之zh怒n,使sh人rn以y让rng宓m子z曰yu:“民mn寒hn耕gng热r耘yn,曾cng不b得d食sh,岂q不b哀i哉zi?不b知zh犹yu可k,以y告go者zh而r子z不b听tng,非fi所su以y为wi民mn也y。” 宓m子zi蹴c然rn曰yu:“今jn兹z无w麦mi,明mng年nin可k树sh,若ru使sh不b耕gng者zh获hu,是sh使sh民mn乐yu有yu寇ku,且qi得de单dn父f一y岁su之zh麦mi,于y鲁l不b加ji强qing,丧sng之zh不b加ji弱ru,若ru使sh民mn有yu自z取q之zh心xn,其q创chung必b数sh世sh不b息x。”季j孙sn闻wn之zh,赧nn然rn而r愧ku曰yu:“地d若ru可k入r,吾w岂q忍rn见jin宓m子zi哉zi。”三sn年nin,孔kng子z使sh巫w马m期q远yun观gun政zhng焉yn。巫w马m期q阴yn免min衣y,衣y弊b裘qi,衣y衣y上shng知zh字z下xi于y既j反fn入r单dn父f界ji,见jin夜y渔y者zh得d鱼y辄zh舍sh之zh。舍sh音yn舍sh巫w马m期q问wn焉yn,曰yu:“凡fn渔y者zh为wi得d,何h以y得de鱼y即j舍sh之zh?”渔y者zh曰yu:“鱼y之zh大d者zh名mng为wi魚y寿shu,吾w大di夫f爱i之zh,其q小xio者zh名mng为wi魚y邑y,吾w大di夫f欲y长chng之zh,是sh以y得d二r者zh,辄zh舍sh之zh。”巫w马m期q返fn,以y告go孔kng子z曰yu:“宓m子zi之zh德d,至zh使sh民mn闇n行xng,若ru有yu严yn刑xng于y旁png,敢gn问wn宓m子zi何h行xng而r得d于y。”孔kng子z曰yu:“吾w尝chng与y之zh言yn曰yu:‘诚chng于y此c者zh刑xng乎h彼b。’宓m子zi行xng此c术sh于y单dn父f也y。” 孔kng子z之zh旧ji曰yu原yun壤rng,其q母m死s,夫f子z将jing助zh之zh以y沐m椁gu。子z路l曰yu:“由yu也y,昔x者zh闻wn诸zh夫f子z曰yu:‘无w友yu不b如r己j者zh,过gu则z勿w惮dn改gi。’夫f子z惮dn矣y,姑g已y若ru何h?”姑g且qi也y已y止zh也y孔kng子z曰yu:“凡fn民mn有yu丧sng,匍p匐f救ji之zh,况kung故g旧ji乎h非fi友yu也y,吾w其q友yu乎h?”及j为wi椁gu,原yun壤rng登dng木m曰yu:“久ji矣y予y之zh不b托tu于y音yn也y。”遂su歌g曰yu:“狸l首shu之zh班bn然rn,执zh女n手shu之zh卷jun然rn。”子z路l曰yu:“夫f子z屈q节ji而r极j于y此c,失sh其q与y矣y,岂q未wi可k以y已y乎h?”孔kng子z曰yu:“吾w闻wn之zh亲qn者zh不b失sh其q为wi亲qn也y,故g者zh不b失sh其q为wi故g也y。”